Pretending to Love

Every time you pretend to love, you impoverish yourself more and more.

Love has great potential to enrich your life. But if you are just playing a role, pretending to love, it’s only going to poison you. Because you are teaching yourself that it’s just a game, and slowly but surely you will lose the capacity to open in love.

Saying Yes or No

Unless you know how to set boundaries to form your safe space, you will always be concerned that saying ‘yes’ might put you in danger. So you will always pull back a little from saying ‘yes’ with your whole heart. Paradoxically, knowing….

how to say ‘no’ to form boundaries gives much more power to your ‘yes’.

Mahal kasi kita!

Mahal kasi kita by Nicole Hyala